virgileso at [unixtime wrote:1189284529[/unixtime]]
* Eschew Materials
* Improved Initiative
* Skill Focus (Concentration)
* Spell Focus (Illusion)
* Extend Spell
Thumbs down on Eschew Materials and SF (Concentration). Seriously, if someone pulls that sunder idiocy on you just spend more cash on spell component pouches: if necessary, get mule loaded down with pouches; or better yet, arrange never to be in melee range. SF (Concentration) sucks in all sorts of ways that I think have already been discussed.
I happen to be a major fan of Improved Initiative: in D&D, offense carries the day, and at 1st level and again by 7th level, if you can get the first attack in with something like
color spray or
phantasmal killer, often you can end the battle right there without further questions asked.
Along with this, I would argue that the standard 28-point-buy gray elf wizard stat distribution after racial mods is: 6 Str, Dex 16, Con 12, Wis 8, Int 20, Cha 8. Since you're on 32-point-buy you have some points to waste in useless stats, or to further pump Dex/Con. Stats that aren't Dex, Con, or Int do
nothing for you: Dex is important for initiative, Ref saves, and AC (mostly against ranged touch attacks), in that order of importance; Con for hit points and Fort saves; and Int for all the obvious reasons.
I'm not a big fan of any of the Spell Focus feats outside a character expecting to hit archmage or a build highly focused on maxing out one school, like the shadow gnome builds. If you really want it, master specialist (I can't remember if that's allowed) is a good way to pick it up at low cost.
In terms of other feats, you've mentioned Extend Spell and Craft Wondrous, which are both good wizard feats for all the standard reasons. I'd also encourage you to look at Sculpt Spell: it's useful from low to high levels, starting with things like
sculpted grease and ending up at things like
sculpted antimagic field. Alacritous Cogitation may also be worth a look, though there's a magic item in the same book that serves much the same purpose.
You should definitely look into the elf wizard substitution levels in RotW if they're allowed: elf generalist is quite nice if you don't need specialization, and one of the others is good too.
