Dogbert wrote:I have it on good authorithy, however, that up until 15 years ago, sexual violence was a part of bullying as regular in schools as physical violence and bullies used to drive victims to suicide (but then trends changed and victims started murdering the bullies).
I have it on good authority that up until 0 years ago, sexual violence was a part of bullying as regular in schools as physical violence, and bullies used to drive victims to suicide. In the United States.
Dogbert wrote:Also, at least up until 15 years ago, prostitution was as common among teenage girls wanting expensive clothes as summer jobs are in the US. As a funny side note, it wasn't uncommon hearing of unfaithful husbands who went to brothels and the randomly assigned girl they ended up with turned out to be their daughter.
I laugh at obvious morality stories being taken as fact.
Dogbert wrote:And then there are the specialized maid cafes where patrons are explicitly allowed to molest the waitresses, hoping that they relieve their libido there and stop molesting their underlings at work.
Not really "explicitly allowed." Sure, sometimes waitresses are discouraged from reporting harassment the same way women are discouraged from reporting it in the United States. Sure, sometimes a business is a sham cover for a brothel. But that doesn't mean that you can always get away with slapping the waitress on the ass, nor does it mean she's going to look kindly on your propositioning her. Just that sometimes it happens anyways, just like it happens in the United States.
You're reporting a pithy bracket of urban legends, usually based off of heavily exaggerated news lines, as fact. I appreciate that they came from your teacher who lived in Japan, but you should consider that thse stories played the telephone game before even reaching your teacher.
In conclusion: the United States is every bit as fucked up about sexuality as Japan, possibly even moreso. Stop treating the Land of the Rising Sun as the Land of the Raping Sarariman, or at least don't treat it as something special. This kind of sexual assault and sexual trafficking happens where you live too, and in greater numbers. We just sweep it under the rug, and focus on everyone else's perversion, just like Japan does with respect to the USA!