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I can relate to that, Hyzmarca. And I would feel awkward in such situation too.

I just dont think engaging with sex or rape in the context of genre apropriate situations is the same thing as using the table as a vehicle to externalize personal sex fantasies. Your example (narrating a sex scene in very detailed form) would be akin to detailing a murder/torturing scene in very detailed form. I would also feel awkward if someone narrated the murdering/physical torturing of living beings in the way you describe. Thats my point.

If you're talking arranged political marriages, you're better off charming whoever is the head of the other person's house, than the person themselves.