Soo what? Players enjoying ruining games wont say you "I have fun via stabbing fellow PC'. And by the same reason no one will tell you "I want to crush everything effortlessly to up my self-esteem". Asking such sort of questions makes you receive right answer, not true answer.PhoneLobster wrote:But you sit down and ask them, and they want a challenge, they want a story, they want adversity to overcome, they want a feeling of risk and a sense that (even if ULTIMATELY it isn't there) that there is some sort of potential for some sort of failure.
About player rehab, it is assumed that you play with this guy all this year. But still it is very hard to persuade him that you really don't want to fuck him up silently lying in ambush and talking to him to let his guard down. Hell, this guy quite possibly had 5 years of suckball gaming experience, and some of dick masters surely told him that he have no need to play paranoid orphan - just to fuck him up.
And another one. You tell that player's don't want to autowin? Well, in general no, but it's not hard to find ones who actually does. Again, they just won't tell you about that. In my experience I had two players who done almost nothing on game (not mentioning scrying on party member. Party member was offended, by the way), and when they failed a quest there were lots of drama, but they gave me no answer how do they supposed to solve the problem. I don't count "waiting for dm's loco" as an answer.
Btw, about one of these players. I was called shitty DM because her Favoured Soul 6 cannot make everybody lick her feets and vagina just by reason of being divine caster. She even mentioned that Church were great in middle ages and Pope was above the kings.. Yeah, but she were just a priest, and actually not a catholic priest in medieval. So she left to her old DM who railroads, makes TPK with falling bricks or CR 50 monsters (it's "detailed" world, the one where if you go anywhere instead of quest location you meet overpowered mobs who are supposed to live here), and yes while they play lvl 15 still nobody licks her feet, instead using party as "go-there-do-this" boys.
I stayed with rest of party who actually were quite happy she left us.